Everything You Need To Know

Dating a man/woman from an African culture could be a very rewarding and fulfilling experience.

However getting involved with someone from another background/culture could be sometimes challenging if you do not posses adequate knowledge of the key factors that highly influence your relationship’s success or failure.

This website is designed and dedicated to providing important information and helping those who are dating an African man or dating an African woman. Check out the Book and find out everything you need to know when it comes to dating an African man or woman.


My guess is you are here because you want to get information and you want to get questions answered: How to best handle a relationship with someone from an African culture, What is it like? What should I expect? What are the risks? Am I being used? How can I make it work? How different is it going to be from dating someone of my own culture? Is the experience worth it? What does he/she like? Can I trust him/her? what are the roles of the man and woman from the African perspective? …and many more questions.



Or maybe you already are involved with someone and things haven’t really gone quite as expected or wished for. You want to find out what to do to make things better? Do you just wish to find out certain things about the African culture and how that affects your relationship?

What ever your questions or concerns may be, you have come to the one place that holds the answers to those questions and solutions for your concerns or relationship problems. The Book I wrote, as you will find out, holds the answers to most, if not all your questions and everything you need to know when it comes to dating an African man or woman.

But who am I, and why should you listen to what I have to say when it comes to dating an African man or woman? My name is Brian, I live in the US but my heritage is African. Years of travel, dating and exposure to cultural differences have helped me gain the knowledge and expertise that I am going to share with you on this website. Because of the fact that I have personally been in relationships with ladies from other cultures, I am able to give you some very good advice when it comes to dating an African man or an African lady. I am able to tell you about some common mistakes you should avoid while dating an African. I think it is safe to say with me coming from an African background, I know and understand the mind and ways of the African man and woman.


Helping people, sharing information is something I enjoy doing. It comes naturally to me and I would very much like to share what I know with you.


I  spent quite some time browsing the web and sadly enough I couldn’t find any other sites that discussed the topics I will be elaborating on, concerning dating an African.

My Book, “Dating an African”, simply put, is designed and jam-packed with information that everyone seeks to know before AND while dating an African man or an African woman.

I am sure you will find it very helpful as well.

Knowledge is power and knowing these things will save you a lot of trouble, heartache and disappointment, while helping build a strong, happy and successful relationship.

Take a minute and check out the Book. I am sure you will find the topics discussed therein to be most interesting and helpful. All the best.


38 Responses

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  5. Elizabeth says:

    I bought your ebook today, it told me that it can take a few days to come to me. This is the first time I’ve purchased something like this and am wondering if the book comes through email or how I will receive it? I’m currently seeing someone from Cameroon who is here going through med school and i am really anxious to start reading this book.

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  16. admin says:

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  17. feelmetotally says:

    Please tell me where I can meet a nice African man. I am an African American woman and dating men from here have just gotten old. Some old, same old. Would love to be with a man who would appreciate what I bring.

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  23. admin says:

    You are welcome Ann. Very glad to help. Feel free to email me with any specific questions you have and/or get a copy of my ebook for more information on important topics :)

  24. Ann Betiku says:

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  27. admin says:

    I am sure there are tons of ladies in a situation like yours. I will be very willing to share with you the information that I have on the topic so if you do not get the information you need from your friends then do not hesitate to email me for a coaching session. I am sure that I can help.

  28. black is Butiful says:

    I am caucasian and dating an African guy but havn’t told my parents yet. anyone on here in a similar situation? just wondering how they will react? I mean, I have other African and African American friends and they are ok with them all but I dunno if they will be ok with actually dating? anyone here been through this?

  29. love doctor says:

    hey! my bf is also from cameroon! so I guess I can relate more to the issues u talk about

  30. admin says:

    We just updated the purchase page to now include the option to get a hard copy. Just chose “Hard Copy” from the drop down menu when making your purchase. sorry for the inconvenience before. Hope you enjoy your copy of the book!

  31. Honey West says:

    Is this book available in any other context than ebook? I am extremely interested book but would prefer hard copy.

  32. admin says:

    thanks, no offense taken. I grew up in an english speaking home plus i am able to learn languages very easily. I do have a slight accent but you kind ahave to listen close to get it.

  33. admin says:

    cameroon

  34. Marbey says:

    what country are you from?

  35. Beverly says:

    man you are such a cuty ;) , and how come you don’t have a foreign accent or something. No offense and i don’t mean to stereotype but your english is really good compared to waht I have heard from other people from non-english speaking countries.

  36. admin says:

    you are right, its not just you. It is very possible that men who come from thesame cultural background could possess different morales and habits.

  37. Diva says:

    I had a similar experience like yours but both guys I dated were from the same place, so I guess even the same country does not necessarily have to produce the same kind of people? or maybe its just my case. oh well

  38. miss_independent says:

    I dated a guy from south Africa and it did not last long because he was kind of imposing on me. about 5 months after that I met another guy, he was from Cote D’Ivoire and we have been together since then. People are truly different based on their personalities